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What is social-emotional development?
Social-emotional development involves the ability to form close, secure
relationships and to experience, regulate, and express emotions.
Social-emotional growth is affected by a variety of factors, such as an
individual’s unique biology and temperament, as well as life experiences.
- “Social” refers to how individuals interact with others.
- “Emotional” refers to how individuals feel about themselves, others, and the world.
Why support young children’s social-emotional development?
When children feel good about themselves, have positive relationships with others, and know how to regulate their emotions, they are more likely to:
- Succeed in group situations, such as school or community settings.
- Be able to concentrate and learn.
- Effectively communicate their feelings.
- Develop confidence and self-esteem.
- Develop attachment.
What is attachment and how is it related to social-emotional development?
Attachment refers to the caring relationships that develop between a child and important people in his or her life. These special relationships help a child feel safe, as well as develop trust and independence. Secure attachments to primary adults provide the foundation for social-emotional development.
- Early childhood educators can support the development of attachments by:
- Making sure every child has a primary adult who is there daily to provide support and help develop strong, positive relationships.
- Responding promptly and appropriately to children’s verbal and non-verbal messages.
- Getting to know children’s family members, beliefs, and family culture in order to understand, appreciate, and honor family perspectives.
- Using observations, reflection, and actions to ensure every child is cared for, respected, and develops positive self-esteem.
- Encouraging emotional self-regulation.
What is emotional self-regulation and how is it related to attachment?
Emotional self-regulation refers to a child’s ability to control emotions and impulses. It is influenced by the quality of attachments and by developmental level.
- As infants, children need adults to help them deal with strong emotions; but as they grow and learn, children develop self-control.
- Children begin to develop an awareness of their own emotions and to understand that other people have emotions, too.
- Interactions with family members, caregivers, peers, and other community members influence a child’s emotions and ability to cope with feelings.
When needed, provide extra support to help children build relationships by offering:
- Guidance to learn how to make friends.
- Extra hugs and positive comments during the day.
- Opportunities to help or do something special with one adult.
How can adults support the social-emotional growth of young children?
- Respond to each child’s needs with warmth and respect by smiling, touching, or talking.
- Model appropriate behaviors by interacting with other adults and children in ways that create a climate of kindness and generosity.
- Recognize and respond to pro-social behavior.
- Acknowledge and identify children’s feelings.
- Understand and adapt for each child’s body rhythms, temperament, and personality.
Early childhood educators can design an environment that helps children feel supported by:
- Creating routines that are predictable but flexible.
- Designing learning spaces that are orderly and allow for quiet alone time, small group time, and busy, active play.
- Providing learning materials that are stored and organized so that they can be used by all children.
- Having pictures, photos of familiar people, and artwork created by children displayed at child’s level.
- Offering a variety of materials and toys that are developmentally appropriate and support interactions, such as blocks, wagons, puppets, and balls
Plan the curriculum to include social and emotional learning activities, such as the following:
- During group time, use puppets, books, and stories to name, describe, and learn about feelings.
- Provide opportunities for children to express feelings and ideas through play, art, music, movement, sensory, and other activities.
- Offer activities that match children’s interests, preferences, and learning styles.
Where to learn more:
Selected Social-Emotional Resources: http://www.ccids.umaine.edu/ec/growingideas/socemores.htm
Early Childhood Growing Ideas Tipsheet Index
Citation for this
Tipsheet:
Downs, J., Blagojevic, B., Labas, L., Kendrick, M., & Maeverde, J. (2005).
Friends and Feelings: Social-Emotional Development in Young Children. In Growing
Ideas Toolkit (pp. 23-24). Orono, ME: The University of Maine Center for
Community Inclusion and Disability Studies. Retrieved [INSERT MONTH, DAY, YEAR
RETRIEVED], from
http://www.ccids.umaine.edu/ec/growingideas/socemotip.htm
